An Interesting Question-Day 78

Happy Wednesday. May this day be the best day of your life. May you accomplish all of your goals. May you enjoy health, happiness, and above all LOVE.

Yesterday I wrote an entry regarding most men that I have encounter preferring what I classified as "non-thinking" women. I even shared with you the fact that most of the Black men that I either married, dated, or had some kind of contact with, were intellectually inferior to me.

But I had an interesting question posed to me that I want to openly respond to. The question was" in a nut shell":

"L. why do you choose these inferior men?"

I will answer this question truthfully and as honestly as I can. First, I have wondered this same thing. Why are the men that I have chosen to have an intimate relationship with all inferior to me intellectually? Do I enjoy having more thinking ability than them? Do I want to control the relationship? Do I feel empowered by having men that I know can not challenge me intellectually?

The answer is that most Black men are inferior to me intellectually. In the past, I considered myself loyal to Black men. This means that I refused to date any other ethnic group. I did not date outside of my race. I was a loyal "sista", as most would say.

So if I had in the past dated ONLY Black men, and most Black men are not intelligent, what are my chances of dating an intelligent Black man? Most of the professional Black men were married, and I do not date married men.

Think about this for a moment, on the average, most Black males are either in prison, on drugs, or hanging on some street corner. Where are intelligent or professional unmarried Black men?

I "settled" for men based on the ones that were in my environment. I believe my selection of inferior men, in the past, is a direct reflection of the pool of Black men that were in my aggregate of surrounding things. Most Black men have inferior intelligence.

Most Black families are fatherless, because the Black men have abandoned their children. Most Black children are illiterate because Black men are not leaders in their communities, and mother are trying to do it all. Most Black communities are in a state of chaos because they have no leadership and most of the homes have no father.


So you tell me, what did I have to look forward to in a man but inferior intelligence? This is the pool that most Black women have to choose from. This is the exact reason so many professional Black women are single. (Watch the Movie "Waiting to Exhale") It clearly depicts this dilemma that most professional Black women find themselves in.

We (Black women) do not have much at all to choose from unless we go outside of our race, which I have decided to do. I am no longer "loyal" to Black men. In fact, I am finally "airing their dirty laundry". I am telling and exposing them for who most of them really are. ( Non Thinkers)

I chose "these men" based on what I had available to choose from. But the fact is most Black men are intellectually inferior to most professional women.

So there. I shared the dirty honest truth with you. I need an intelligent man. I do not just want "to settle" any longer. It is a prerequisite at this point and time in my life. When I marry this time, I want it to be the last time. I want it to be for life. And how could this possibly be with a man that can not even speak and complete a proper sentence, without saying "you know", at the end of every sentence?

My question to these men is "do I know what, do I know that you are unintelligent and can not speak in complete sentences because you have not taken the time to "feed" your brain, like you feed your appetite for sex?"

Think about it.


Have a great day, and please do not forget to feed your brain.:)

L. for Love