Identifying Problems-Day 56

Good morning and happy Saturday. Make this the best day ever. Make up your mind to accomplish all of your goals and more. Identify any problems in your life in order to make plans to solve them. Remeber, in order to solve a problem, it must first be identified.

Problems-any question or matter involving doubt, uncertainty, or difficulty;A situation, matter, or person that presents perplexity or difficulty.

As clearly stated in the above definition, a problem can exist in different forms. It can be some uncertainty, or it can be a person that presents "perplexity and/or difficulty". We all encounter problems in life. It is how we approach and/or deal with the problems that is most important.

It is critical to keep and maintain a positive outlook, and know that "this too" will past. Deal with the problem, upfront, and honestly. Resolve "whatever" so that you can move forward in your life.

If it is a person or people that is causing problems in your life, try discussing the problems with them. Sometimes all it takes is a little communication. But other times, it takes much more. If he/she can not be approached, for whatever reason, you may have to disassociate yourself from him/her. I know this to be a fact because I have had to discontinue either a potential relationship and stop speaking to certain people, who are not worth my time. Many people want to come into your life to waste time. They are unsure what their life is about. They clearly see that you have goals and objectives. So they want to "block" or "obstruct" your vision. They want to only bring discourse in your life.

These type of people should be avoided at all cost. I had an experience recently where this "male" was telling me he wants to do "this" and "that" for me. He was texting me all through the day, promising to pay my phone bill because of his inordinate number of textings. He made many promises. I explained to him that "I hear your words". But action is what I actually want to see. I am not impressed by words, because, as soon as the words come out of your mouth, "they are gone, like the wind". But action produce results.

Well this "male" eventually displayed his true colors, and did nothing he had promised. I told him that I was not interested in any further communication, and I wished him much love and success. But I got rid of what I identified as a potential "problem in my life". I have no time for games and people full of "hot air".

So the bottom line here is that...we make our life what we want it to be. There will always be problems to solve. This is what makes us stronger and more resolved. But how we handle or attempt to solve the problems is key.

I choose to be positive and move on. I choose life. I choose to be happy, and not allow anyone or anything to dismantle my peace of mind.

Have a wonderful day.


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